{"id":2745,"date":"2024-06-04T14:31:06","date_gmt":"2024-06-04T18:31:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/?p=2745"},"modified":"2024-06-04T14:37:49","modified_gmt":"2024-06-04T18:37:49","slug":"moving-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/index.php\/2024\/06\/04\/moving-day\/","title":{"rendered":"Moving day"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>My daughter has moved out for the last time (probably). She left here last Thursday and started her new job with the Ministry of Transportation in BC on Monday. I&#8217;m finding that the obvious finality of it is bringing out stronger emotions than I experienced the last two times she moved out for school. Of course I wanted her to move out and start her life on her own and get her career underway. I am very happy that things are working out so well and of course I will see her again, but Kamloops is very far away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our lives in the past few years have been closely intertwined and our little family unit has been through a lot of stuff in the past few years. Beth&#8217;s cancer and my cancer, followed by far too many additional problems have put a lot of stress on my children, but I have been very grateful to them both and to Beth as I have navigated all of this unpleasantness. And I think it (and the early pandemic) brought us much closer together (at least in part so we didn&#8217;t kill each other).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I feel lucky that we had this time together as adults even though it was very challenging at times. It&#8217;s very exciting that Morgan&#8217;s life is coming together right now and I am looking forward to visiting her in her own place once she has one, but I&#8217;m having lots of Dad feelings right now. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"2749\" src=\"https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6232-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2749\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6232-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6232-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6232-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6232-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6232-scaled.jpg 1153w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"2750\" src=\"https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6236-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6236-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6236-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6236-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6236-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/IMG_6236-scaled.jpg 1153w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"2753\" src=\"https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/signal-2024-06-04-111900_002-1-576x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2753\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/signal-2024-06-04-111900_002-1-576x1024.jpeg 576w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/signal-2024-06-04-111900_002-1-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/signal-2024-06-04-111900_002-1-768x1365.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/signal-2024-06-04-111900_002-1-864x1536.jpeg 864w, https:\/\/mm.kapn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/signal-2024-06-04-111900_002-1.jpeg 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My daughter has moved out for the last time (probably). She left here last Thursday and started her new job with the Ministry of Transportation in BC on Monday. I&#8217;m finding that the obvious finality of it is bringing out stronger emotions than I experienced the last two times she moved out for school. 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